Probably
you’ve been reading tons of Best Dating Books just to get the right idea for your proposal. Reading dating books
might give you cool romantic ideas for proposals. But if you want to really
make your girlfriend say “yes” when you pop out the question, don’t copy
celebrity inspired ideas on the Internet. Instead, add your personal touch to
make it original.
First thing that you’ll need
to understand is that when you propose to your girlfriend, you’re asking her to
be a part of your life forever. So when you propose, the proposal must look as
yourself asking her to be with you for the rest of the life. Therefore it’s
your personality that must come out on the proposal. Not someone else’s ideas.
If it can’t be helped, you
have to make it better. If you copy someone else’s idea, give it an extra twist
or a personal touch. If you’re planning to bend down on one knee before popping
out the question, say a few words of how important she is to your life and how
much you wanted her to be with you for as long as you live. Think it over days
before you pop out the question. What things would you have to say, how are you
going to say it, and others. Plan also when and where you would like to take
her to do the proposal. You can propose whether on your favorite restaurant,
the beach, or any place that is significant to your relationship. To get more
ideas, you read lots of Best Dating Books and
combine those ideas plus your preferences to create a different kind of wedding
proposal that is your own.
In keeping the wedding ring
to surprise her, make sure that you’ll keep it in a manner that it will entice
your girlfriend to wonder what it is. Putting it on a glass of red wine or
inside a cake might put a risk of your girl swallowing the ring. That might be
embarrassing. You can put the ring on her pet or play a treasure hunting-like
play and the “x-marks-the-spot” area is where you were keeping the ring. Other
tested and proven ideas in wedding proposals include keeping the ring along
with a box of chocolates or in a bouquet of her favorite flowers.
Bottom line is that every person
has different preferences when it comes to proposals. Know what your girl
really likes. Since you are the person who knows her the most, ask her
indirectly or create ways to know what she would like to have in a proposal.
Consider also the timing of the proposal. If you are planning to propose to her
now, would that be the right time? Is she too preoccupied with her commitments
as of now? Feel the air between the both of you if it’s the right time to go to
the altar to make sure that she’d say “yes” to you the
moment you asked her to.